Yes. I think the distinction you are making is very important. When Scripture calls fallen humanity “enemies” of God, it does not necessarily mean that every human being consciously feels emotional hatred toward God.
A person may admire God, pray, seek transcendence, practice religion, fear divine judgment, desire divine help, and sincerely believe that he loves God—and nevertheless remain, in the biblical sense, alienated from and hostile to God.
The enmity is deeper than conscious animosity.
⚔️ What does “enemy” mean in Romans 5?
Paul writes:
“For if when we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son…”
Romans 5:10
The context helps enormously. Paul has already described us as:
- “without strength” — Romans 5:6
- “ungodly” — Romans 5:6
- “sinners” — Romans 5:8
- “enemies” — Romans 5:10
So “enemy” is not primarily describing an emotion such as, “I wake up every morning hating God.”
It describes a relationship of opposition.
Think of two kingdoms at war. A citizen does not have to personally despise the opposing king every waking moment to belong to the side that is in rebellion against him.
Humanity has departed from God’s rule.
And this is already visible in Adam.
🌳 Adam did not shake his fist at God—but look at what happened
I agree with your observation about Adam.
After eating the fruit, Adam does not say:
“I hate You, God. Leave me alone.”
Something much subtler—and perhaps much more revealing—happens.
“Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God among the trees of the garden.”
Genesis 3:8
That may be our first picture of the enmity.
Before the Fall, God’s presence meant fellowship.
Afterward, God’s presence becomes something from which humanity hides.
And when God confronts Adam, Adam does not openly declare war against Him. Instead he says:
“The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.”
Genesis 3:12
There is already something wrong vertically.
“The woman whom You gave me…”
Adam is not merely afraid. His relationship with God has become distorted. There is hiding, self-protection, blame, fear, and unwillingness to stand naked before God’s judgment.
So perhaps we could say:
The first expression of human enmity toward God was not a clenched fist. It was hiding behind a tree.
That is profound because fallen humanity has been hiding ever since—sometimes even behind religion.
🧭 But then why does humanity seek God?
This is where your observation becomes especially interesting.
Across civilizations, humanity has indeed been overwhelmingly religious.
Temples. Sacrifices. Priests. Altars. Prayers. Rituals. Gods. Ideas of transcendence, judgment, afterlife, purification, and divine favor.
Paul himself acknowledges that humanity possesses awareness of God.
“because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them.”
Romans 1:19
And:
“For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made…”
Romans 1:20
Paul even tells the Athenians that God ordered human history:
“so that they should seek the Lord, in the hope that they might grope for Him and find Him…”
Acts 17:27
So Christianity does not need to deny humanity’s religious impulse.
In fact, Scripture explains why it exists.
We are God’s creatures.
We bear His image (Genesis 1:26–27).
We inhabit His creation.
We live by His providence.
We possess conscience (Romans 2:14–15).
We cannot completely erase our awareness of transcendence.
The fascinating biblical claim is therefore not simply:
“Human beings don’t want God.”
It is more precise:
We want God, but not naturally on God’s terms.
And there lies the enmity.
🪞 We want a God we can approach without surrender
Romans 1 makes exactly this movement.
Humanity knows something about God:
“although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful…”
Romans 1:21
Then comes something astonishing.
Human beings do not simply become atheists.
They become religious.
“and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things.”
Romans 1:23
Notice what happened.
They did not eliminate worship.
They redirected it.
That tells us something profound about sin.
Sin does not necessarily say:
“There shall be no God.”
Very often it says:
“God shall be what I determine Him to be.”
That is much closer to biblical enmity.
👑 The deepest issue is God’s right to be God
This becomes explicit in Romans 8:
“Because the carnal mind is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be.”
Romans 8:7
Notice how Paul defines the enmity.
He doesn’t say:
“The carnal mind experiences unpleasant emotional feelings toward God.”
He says:
“It is not subject to the law of God.”
There it is.
Enmity manifests itself as insubordination.
The creature refuses God’s rightful authority.
That takes us straight back to Eden.
The serpent’s temptation was not primarily:
“Hate God.”
It was:
“you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
Genesis 3:5
In other words, humanity reached for moral autonomy.
God had defined good and evil.
The creature effectively said:
I will determine good and evil for myself.
And that is rebellion even when accompanied by religious feelings.
🙏 This explains a strange human phenomenon
Someone can sincerely pray:
“God, please help me get this job.”
“God, heal my child.”
“God, protect my family.”
“God, forgive me.”
“God, bless my plans.”
And yet when God’s revealed will confronts something the person desperately wants, suddenly the deeper question appears:
Do I want God—or do I want God’s assistance while retaining sovereignty over myself?
That is where the heart is exposed.
Jesus encountered this constantly.
People wanted His bread (John 6:26).
They wanted His healing.
They wanted His miracles.
Some wanted Him as political king (John 6:15).
But when He confronted them with Himself and His claims, many left:
“From that time many of His disciples went back and walked with Him no more.”
John 6:66
They were seeking Jesus.
And yet they did not want Jesus as He actually was.
That distinction is enormous.
🕊️ So religious longing and enmity can coexist
This is why I would be cautious about saying that the existence of religion proves that fallen humanity naturally desires reconciliation with the true God.
It proves something slightly different.
It demonstrates that humanity cannot escape its creatureliness.
We were made for God.
As Paul told the Athenians:
“For in Him we live and move and have our being.”
Acts 17:28
Yet the same humanity that senses God also reshapes Him.
That produces the extraordinary paradox:
Human beings seek God while simultaneously hiding from Him.
Genesis 3 already contains both instincts.
Adam hears God.
Adam knows God.
Adam answers God.
Adam fears God.
Adam needs God.
And Adam hides from God.
That is fallen humanity in miniature.
💔 There is also another side to “enmity”
Romans 5:10 says:
“when we were enemies we were reconciled to God…”
Reconciliation implies that there was an objective rupture in the relationship—not merely hostile feelings inside us.
Sin has placed humanity under God’s righteous judgment.
Paul has just said:
“Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from wrath through Him.”
Romans 5:9
Then immediately:
“For if when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God…”
Romans 5:10
Those thoughts belong together.
So our condition involves both sides of the broken relationship:
Humanity is rebellious toward God.
God is judicially opposed to humanity’s sin.
But these are not morally symmetrical.
God’s “opposition” toward sinners is holy and righteous judgment.
Ours toward Him is sinful rebellion.
God does not need His sinful hostility cured—He has none.
We need reconciliation.
And astonishingly, the God against whom we rebelled is the One who initiates it:
“God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself…”
2 Corinthians 5:19
That is breathtaking.
✝️ And now Christ becomes essential again
This connects beautifully with what you said before.
If human enmity were merely emotional dislike, salvation might simply require changing our feelings about God.
But the problem is vastly deeper.
We need:
our guilt dealt with,
our rebellion broken,
our false conception of God exposed,
our relationship restored,
our heart changed,
and God’s righteous judgment satisfied.
Christ accomplishes reconciliation objectively at the Cross, and the Spirit brings us subjectively into that reconciliation.
Paul therefore says:
“Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ…”
2 Corinthians 5:18
And something remarkable happens.
The gospel doesn’t merely make us stop “hating” God.
It brings us home.
🌿 Perhaps “alienation” helps us understand “enmity”
Paul uses exactly that language:
“And you, who once were alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now He has reconciled…”
Colossians 1:21
Those words belong together:
alienated
enemies
reconciled
That is much richer than psychological hatred.
We could therefore describe biblical enmity something like this:
Enmity with God is the condition of the creature living alienated from God’s life, resistant to God’s rightful rule, guilty before His holiness, and attempting to exist on terms other than those established by the Creator.
Sometimes that produces open atheistic hostility.
Sometimes immorality.
Sometimes indifference.
Sometimes fear.
Sometimes sophisticated philosophy.
And sometimes it produces religion.
That last one may be the most surprising.
Because a person can bow before an altar while still insisting, deep down:
“I will decide what God is like, how He may be approached, what He requires, and what I am willing to surrender.”
The body bows while the self remains on the throne.
And perhaps that helps explain why Jesus’ fiercest conflicts were not primarily with people who denied God’s existence.
They were often with intensely religious people.
They prayed.
They fasted.
They gave alms.
They studied Scripture.
They believed in resurrection.
They awaited Messiah.
Yet when God came among them in the Son, their relationship with God was tested at the deepest level:
“He who hates Me hates My Father also.”
John 15:23
That is almost shocking.
Because Christ reveals that the ultimate test isn’t merely whether humanity desires “God” in some abstract sense.
The question becomes:
What happens when God reveals Himself and claims us on His terms?
And once again, Jesus stands at the center. ✝️