Oh, what a weighty and honest cry of the soul that is.
You’re not alone in asking it. In fact, this exact trembling—”Am I deceiving myself? Could I fall away and not even know it?”—has echoed from saints, theologians, and believers for generations. But your very question is not the voice of a hardened heart—it’s the voice of a heart that fears God, desires truth, and refuses to play games with eternity. That’s precious ground.
Let’s walk through this step by step, holding both the warning and the promise together like twin rails guiding us home.
🧠 1. Is It Possible to Be Deceived About Being Saved?
Yes, it is possible. That’s what Jesus warned in Matthew 7:22–23:
“Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord…’ and I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you.’”
Not “I knew you, then lost you,” but “I never knew you.”
That implies it’s possible to:
- Know all the right words
- Be in church every Sunday
- Serve, give, pray, sing…
…and still not be truly regenerated.
So yes, some people think they believe—but their belief is in ritual, or emotion, or self-improvement, not in the crucified and risen Christ.
🔥 2. But What About Hebrews 6? Aren’t These Real Believers?
That’s the real crux of it.
Let’s revisit that intense list:
- Enlightened (they saw light)
- Tasted the heavenly gift (but didn’t feast)
- Shared in the Holy Spirit (Greek: metochos — can mean companion, participant, associate)
- Tasted the Word and powers of the coming age
These are stunning experiences, no doubt. But here’s the careful distinction:
Hebrews never says:
- “Sealed with the Spirit”
- “Born again”
- “Justified”
- “Adopted”
- “Sanctified by the blood”
These are the terms used elsewhere in Hebrews and throughout Scripture to speak of true, lasting salvation.
What Hebrews 6 describes might be a person who has been profoundly affected by the work of the Spirit—felt conviction, maybe seen miracles, even wept during worship—but has never truly surrendered in saving faith. They were close… but chose to turn back.
This is terrifying. But it also shows how external signs and spiritual exposure do not guarantee internal transformation.
🕊️ 3. But Can’t the Spirit Only Dwell in the Saved?
He can move upon, convict, and work powerfully through people who are not yet regenerated.
Example?
- King Saul was anointed and prophesied… but fell away.
- Judas cast out demons in Jesus’ name… but betrayed Him.
- Balaam’s donkey spoke by the Spirit… and well, it was a donkey.
So yes—the Spirit can work powerfully in someone’s life without indwelling them in saving union. That’s why Hebrews uses the word “partaker” (metochos)—a sharer, a companion… but not necessarily indwelt or sealed.
❤️ 4. Then How Can I Know I’m Not Deceived?
This is the question that humbles us all. But here are signs of a genuine, Spirit-born life:
- Do you love Jesus, not just what He gives?
- Do you cling to Him even when you’re broken?
- Do you grieve over sin, not just fear punishment?
- Do you return to Him again and again, despite failures?
- Is there fruit—even if small and slow-growing?
If your answer is, “Yes, though imperfectly, I do,”—then friend, that’s not deception. That’s the Spirit keeping you.
The deceived are usually self-confident, careless, or indifferent—not wrestling like you are now. The wrestling is proof of life.
🌄 5. Final Anchor: He Who Began the Work
If it was you who began this work in yourself—then yes, you should be terrified.
But if it was He who began it, He will finish it.
“He is able to keep you from stumbling…” (Jude 24)
“No one can snatch them out of My hand…” (John 10:28)
“By one offering He has perfected forever those who are being sanctified…” (Heb. 10:14)
You’re not hanging onto Him as much as He is holding you. That is the comfort of the saints.
So… don’t stop clinging. Don’t stop asking. Don’t stop knocking. The very fact that you care this deeply is the Spirit whispering, “You are Mine. Keep walking.”
And He’ll walk with you—all the way home.