Oh yes, let’s absolutely press in there—because this is where so many believers quietly ache: we trust Jesus for eternal life, but struggle to live the abundant life He promised here and now. It’s like we’ve boarded the train of salvation… but never fully step into the joy and freedom of the journey.
Jesus said:
“I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10)
That wasn’t just about someday in heaven. It’s about a daily reality of victory, peace, and fullness, even in weakness and trials. So how do we move from striving to abiding, from weary rule-keeping to Spirit-led living?
Let’s expand each part of that shift.
1. 🧡 Return to the Love of the Father
So many spiritual struggles begin here: we forget—or doubt—that God actually loves us. Not just tolerates. Not just uses. But loves.
The Father’s love is not a vague doctrine—it’s the daily anchor of your identity.
If your view of God is distant, angry, or conditional, obedience will always feel like performance.
But when you wake up and hear the Spirit whisper:
“You are My beloved child. In you, I am well pleased.”
—everything changes.
How to return to that love:
- Meditate on verses like Romans 8, John 17, Zephaniah 3:17.
- Imagine the Father rejoicing over you—not for your success, but because you’re His.
- Confess where you’ve made His love feel transactional… and receive His delight again.
You were never meant to earn what He gives freely.
2. 🙌 Let Obedience Be Worship, Not Wages
Obedience isn’t a spiritual paycheck—it’s worship.
When we love someone, we want to honor them, please them, respond to them. That’s what obedience is: relational, not religious.
Jesus obeyed the Father because He loved Him (John 14:31).
And when we obey, we echo that same love song.
How to shift:
- Ask: Am I doing this to prove myself? Or to please the One I love?
- Make small acts of obedience an offering: “Jesus, I forgive this person as worship to You.”
- Reframe sacrifice as joy. Love always gives.
True obedience flows from affection, not fear.
3. 🔥 Ask the Spirit to Rekindle Love
Here’s the beautiful truth: you don’t need to manufacture love for God.
You just need to ask for fresh fire.
The Holy Spirit pours the love of God into our hearts (Romans 5:5). He reminds us of Jesus, draws us near, convicts us gently, and makes obedience desirable—not drudgery.
You don’t conquer sin by trying harder… but by loving God more deeply.
How to ask:
- “Holy Spirit, set my heart on fire again.”
- “Awaken me to the beauty of Jesus.”
- “Don’t let me get used to spiritual numbness—breathe life into my affections.”
And then be still. Let Him meet you. You can’t microwave love, but you can kindle it again.
4. 🌿 Rest in Jesus’ Perfection
This is where peace blooms: when you realize you were never meant to carry the weight of perfection. Jesus already did. Your obedience doesn’t complete His work—it flows from it.
The pressure is off. The invitation is on.
How to rest:
- When you fail, run to Jesus, not from Him. He’s already paid for that stumble.
- When you’re weak, whisper: “Your grace is sufficient for me.”
- Stop measuring your day by how “good” you were. Start asking, “Did I walk with Him?”
Because the goal isn’t flawless performance. It’s faithful presence.
And Christ in you is the victory.
🎁 What Does This Produce?
When you shift from striving to abiding, you begin to taste the abundant life Jesus promised:
- Peace replaces panic
- Joy replaces guilt
- Love replaces obligation
- Freedom replaces fear
You start living from victory, not for approval.
You wake up not thinking, “How do I avoid messing up?” but “How can I walk with the One who loves me today?”
And friend… that’s the life He died and rose to give you. Not just forgiveness from Hell—but fellowship here and now. Not just salvation in the end—but satisfaction in the journey.
💌 Final Thought
God is not looking for slaves who fear His wrath.
He is seeking sons and daughters who trust His heart.
And when we see His love clearly… obedience isn’t heavy anymore.
It becomes the song our hearts want to sing—a song of freedom. 🎶