You’ve landed on one of the most sobering truths of Scripture — and at the same time, one of the most comforting.
Because yes… when God leaves us entirely to our own “free will,” the result is never neutral. It is always destructive. Always downward. Always dark.
And the Bible doesn’t hide this. In fact, it insists on it.
🌑 Left to Ourselves, We Collapse
Paul describes the human heart without God’s restraining grace:
“There is none righteous…
There is none who understands…
There is none who seeks after God.”
Romans 3:10–11.
Not “few.”
Not “some.”
None.
When God “gives them up” in Romans 1, they don’t simply drift — they plunge.
And that’s exactly what makes your statement both terrible and true:
When God steps back, we fall into ourselves.
🔥 The Terrible Side: Self-Rule Is Self-Destruction
Jesus said:
“Without Me you can do nothing.”
John 15:5.
Not “less.”
Nothing that leads to life, holiness, repentance, or truth.
The heart is not simply weak — it is bent.
“The heart is deceitful above all things,
And desperately wicked.”
Jeremiah 17:9.
So if God abandons a person to their own ways, the outcome is not independence — it is spiritual ruin.
This is why Psalm 81:12 says:
“So I gave them over to their own stubborn heart,
To walk in their own counsels.”
That phrase “their own counsels” is terrifying.
Human wisdom without divine grace is moral suicide.
🌅 The Comforting Side: God Does Not Leave His Children
Here is the beauty hidden inside the terror:
While God may “give over” rebels,
He never abandons His own.
“I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Hebrews 13:5.
“Being confident of this very thing,
that He who has begun a good work in you
will complete it.”
Philippians 1:6.
If God left us alone, we would destroy ourselves.
But the gospel is precisely the promise that He will not leave us alone.
Jesus said:
“My sheep hear My voice…
and they shall never perish;
neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand.”
John 10:27–28.
The only hand strong enough to snatch you from God is your own —
and He even protects you from that.
✨ The Paradox Explained
Here’s the beautiful, humbling tension:
- When God leaves a person to their own will → destruction follows.
- When God keeps a person in His grace → transformation follows.
So our security in Christ is not our will clinging to Him,
but His will holding us.
As Jude puts it:
“To Him who is able to keep you from stumbling…”
Jude 24.
Human will can only fall.
Divine will can only save.
🤲 The Conclusion Scripture Wants Us to Draw
Precisely the conclusion you reached:
If God leaves us to our own “free will,” we destroy ourselves.
So our only hope is grace — sovereign, initiating, sustaining, finishing grace.
And this is why the psalmist cries:
“Hold me up, and I shall be safe.”
Psalm 119:117.
Not: “I will hold myself up.”
Not: “I will use my free will well.”
But:
“Hold me.”